Wednesday, December 14, 2011

Weekend husband and wife

hi fren........

pernah dgr pasal weekend husband ngn wife x? apa pendapat u all? berbaloi ker? best ker? mencabar ker? terpaksa k? stress x? sape untung? amboi byk benor persoalanye.......where's the answer. meh i jawab....based on my own opinion....not relate to any people live or die out there.....hehe

banyak sebab kenapa terpaksa atau rela jd weekend husband n wife nie. terpaksa sebab nk cr pendapatan lebih, sebab kena assign, sebab xdpt tukar keja lg, sebab company yer requirement, assign sana assign sini. rela.....seronok duk jauh ngn bini atau laki, mostly laki la berfikiran gini, nk bebas katayer, nk free, yela wife asyik berleter, anak lagi serabut dan laki nk ada privacy sendiri, nk kuar masuk umah xde kawalan...nk kuar ngn kwn2 senang, xperlu pening pasal rumah tangga. ade ke laki yg macam nie? mestila ada...sapa xnk hidup free, aku pn nk....hehe, ada ke wife mcm nie? jarang kalo yg ada anak sebab pompuan nie sanggup buat apa saja untuk anak....mana tak yer dikandung 9 bulan, segala ditempuh utk anak tue, pas salin, pantang lak, pastue berjaga mlm lak, pastue kena jg body lagi, jg suami lg, jg umah lg, jg anak lg, sebab tue pompuan xsempat nk fikir nk wt semua nie. tp faktor nie 'ya' juga utk wife xde anak.......bak kata org no commitment. no worries......

berbaloi ke? berbaloi kalo suami isteri royal ngn masing2 xmerana, sedar akan tggjwb, pengorbanan, dan pendapatan yg bertmbah atas pengorbann mampu mngubah kehidupan jd lebih baik.

best ker? best kalo si suami atau si isteri sentiasa hubung menghubungi, penuh ngn 'romantis', even duk jauh macm duk dekat ngn xsunyi...maknye hub jarak jauh nie berjaya.

mencabar ker? mana x mencabar kalo dh duk jauh....byk rintanganyer. semua kena buat sorang2, jg anak, jg umah, keja lg....pastue ada kebarangkalian curang terjaga. mostly lakila yg buat perangai. mana xyer, wife sibuk, yg laki cuma duk sorang2 dan for sure sunyi, dan kalo xlaki tue yg 'gatal' ada pompuan lain yg masuk campur, kalo dh layan sama layan......idupla api....waduh, pandai gak i berperkataan...haha

terpaksa k? terpaksala kalo idup nk demand...kalo nk idup sederhana....with family tercinta, xnk gaji besar, xkejar career.....kalo tak terpaksa mana sebab xk nk elak, kena assign dek company ke, gomen ker, ataupn dh xde alternatif lain.

bestker? bestla kalo xder masalah....even duk jauh, suami isteri setia, xmelayan laki atau pompuan lain, sentiasa igt tgjawab masing2 dan yg penting ingat, idup nie sementara jer, xyahla cr masalah sebabkn nk keseronokan di dunia.

stress x? depend pada peranan masing2. kalo masing2 pandai memainkn peranan xde stress, xder yg sedih...semuaya ok...tp tuela, kita xtahu apa akan terjadi. bak kata org, better prevent from cure. so, tepuk dada tanya selera......

jumpa lagi...tgn dh malas nk menaip...hehe. ...luv u all. muahhhh

Buasir - satu pengalaman menakutkan

ada sape2 pernah terkena buasir x.....mana i pantangkn anak pertama i dulu, i kena buasir waktu dlm pantang. bengkak kat salur darah kt bahagian dubur tue, tp xla bila buang air besar dubur tue kuar sekali, cuma salur darah tue bengkak, dan bila buang air besar, aduhhhh perityer sampai nk menangis, mengalahkan sakit jahit pas bersalin. memang betul2 mencabar. dan ini kali kedua i kena penyakit nie. tgh pantang anak kedua. masa anak first dulu kejap je dh sembuh, yg kali kedua nie agak lama. puncayer i meneran kuat skit, so nk diingatkn kt ibu2 pas bersalin, jgn meneran kuat sgt waktu buang air besar time pantang nie, mungkin urat2 tue still xkuat lg, yela setelah proses meneran yg kuat waktu bersalin.

i g klinik, doc bg ubat...nama ubat tue, doktor kata xpe utk ibu menyusu, yela kalo tgh menyusukn anak, kenala bgtau doktor stiap kali pi klinik, supaya ubat yg kita makan xder effect kt susu dan baby kita.

nk hbs sepapan dh ubat tue, tp penyakit xilang gak. tiap kali i buang air, salur darah tue bengkak balik, i pi klinik lg, this time doktor bg ubat lawas air besar, ubat buasir yg sama ngn first, ubat bengkak ngn 2 biji ubat masuk kot b*****. tp almost 1 week i ambik, still xkurang lg. ada kwn i mengalami pengalaman yg sama, dia kata pas betungku dia letak kt tut, cepat kecut bengkak tue dan minum air inai. kakak i lak kata, jgn teran, tekan je masuk balik nanti ok.

i buat research kt internet, hobi i.....mcm2 suggestion....dan lastly i try ubat HPA, ficus ngn herba. tgh try sekarang.......hopefully menjadi. katayer ficus xberapa sesuai utk ibu menyusu, tp yela dh lama i menanggung sakit, i cubala. insyallah, xde effect kt susu i. dan kesimpulan yg dpt i buat, mostly ubat untuk buasir nie menjurus ke arah memudahkn buang air besar. kalo xsembelit, buasir dpt dikurangkn. itu jer, melainknla buasir kronik. i nk buat research lg........

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

pengalaman bersalin kali ke-2

where to start.....i ade citer tak sebelum nie masuk 7 bulan peknen i kena pakai pad the whole time as sebab kalo batuk ke, kalo baby mengeras skit, air kencing akan terkeluar sendiri. aku pn air kencing ke air ketuban. yela xrupa air kencing, tp aku anggap j air kencing sbb xbyk. sikit2. siap pergi dok, dok kata air kencing sebab lmbt lg due. memang agak rimas, yela kalo time peod pn pakai pad 7-8 hari jer. nie berbulan2. tp tueler pengorbanan dan tanggungjawab. biler dh peknen, semua kita kena terima.....morning sickness, muntah, bawak perut, naik berat badan, muka jerawat k, kaki sembap, xleh mkn itu ini, kena mkn ubat, kena cucuk every month, masuk kuar spital....kalo nk listkn, mcm2..setiap org berbeza. tp once kita redha sebab kita yg nk anak dan biler fikirkan anak dlm perut tue adalah anugerah yg tak semua org dpt dr Allah, mesti kita dpt hadapi semua tue.....

oppssss, terlari dr topik lak, tp ade kaitan gak kn. 14 oct 2011, siap semua, dlm kul 10 pm mcm tue, tiba2 aku rasa mcm air kuar byk dr biasa. jap2 mengalir turun. aku bgtau husband....hbsla basah kain lampin yg aku pakai sebab nk tgk color apa air tue, pakai pad kang xnmpk lak. boleh perah lagi. husband kata nk g hospital ke, aku ckp tunggu dulula. tp biler baring nk tidur je, kuar lg. tp aku tidur je ngn pakai pad dan alas kain. pukul 2.30 am, aku terjaga...air kuar lg...mengalir agak lama. aku kejut husband, husband kata kita g klinik dulu. bersiapla kitaorg....hubby aku angkat je anak kitaorg yg thg tidur. pi klinik penawar masai, ada 3 org, pi lak klinik penawar betik, ade org gak. pi klinik yuslina cendana, tutup...br teringat yuslina kt kota masai 24 hr gak. gla sana. doktor scan, dia kata....kalau dh kuar air byk tue, dia wt surat refer k hospital. hospital mana dia tanya, aku jwbler sultan ismail sbb aku follow up twin kt situ. and kalo deliver kt situ pn husbans leh masuk tgk, hsa xleh.

hubby aku terus g emergency, biler mak guard tue tanya ckp air ketuban kuar. time tue aku xrasa sakit pn, leh jln molek jer. cuma kadang2 perut mengeras, sbb dh biasa dr 7 bulan lg.
masuk bilik saringan, doktor pelatih check jalan....yg first(br bgn tidur) ckp 1.5 cm, mai sorang lg doktor pelatih, lg senior skit kot, dia lak check, dh 3 cm la dia ckp. tp tueler, doktor laki check jln xbape sakit, nasib baik. bukan apa, kadang2 org pompuan buat, terus je seluk,apa salahyer letak air yg sejuk tue byk2 xla rasa sakit sgt. pastue dia panggil doktor betul sbb aku br 34 wek ngn kembar lak tue. doktor tue mai, scan, tgk baby br 1.89 ngn 1.59 kg, xberapa lg, dia taya sakit tak, aku katala xder, tp time dia pegang perut aku, baby mengeras, dia ckp tue ada contraction, aku ckp mmgla ada cuma xsakit mana. mcm aku dgr dia call doktor pakar lain, pastue aku doktor tue ckp, sebab berat baby xcukup lg, aku akan diberi ubat matang paru2 baby dan ubat utk hentikan contraction.

tepat kul 5.30 am, maila misi agak berumur cucuk punggung aku...aku tersentak, dia kata jgnla mcm tue nanti tercucuk sy, yela xckp pn injection tue mmg sakit. nape nk marah aku lak. misi yg muda awal td, senyum je walaupn tersenguk2, yg dh berumur skit nie xknla xleh lembut skit...iskh iskh. pastue dia bwk aku g bilik icu. bilik nie mcm spesel skit, sebilik sorang..yela bilik emergency. aku pn tidur pas dia masukkn ubat henti contraction kt aku.

14 oct 2011....8 pg
doktor pakar round and aku bgtau contraction dh xder, last contraction pg td kul 7.30 am. pastue dia suruh cabut ubat henti contraction tue sbb dh xder xcontraction dn bacaan jantung aku laju. mungkin sebab kesan ubat tue. tp mmg aku xselesa...rasa cam laju jer jantung aku. tp dia kata aku kena transfer wad biasa utk observation lg. masukla aku wad biasa. sehari kt situ, dlm petang kul 6 ptg, kena inject ubat matang paru2 bayi lg sekali. misi tue ok skit, dia bual2 ngn aku dan cucuk. even sakit sgt, tp aku bsyukur dia ok, xla masam jer. yela aku bukan yer masam pn. dlm kul 7 lebih, badan aku cam sejuk semacam, pastue aku rasa air ketuban kuar balik.

8.30 pm....
doktor round lg sekali..time nie doktor pompuan. dia check aku, aku bgtaula air ketuban kuar lg, dia siap tgk lg kat bawah. dan aku ckpla contraction dtg balik, dia pegang dahi aku, eh panas nie. dia panggil misi check suhu...tgk2 38 darjah, demam nie...dia takut baby kena kuman infection sebab aku dh demam, dia check jalan, tp sakit lak time dia check...3 cm. dia call doktor pakar, pastue maila sorang misi tue bgtau aku akan dibawa k labor room terus sbb takut baby kena jangkitan kuman. aku terus minum milo sekotak, sbb pernah baca kalo nk bersalin, minum milo utk tenaga. air selusuh semua xsempat nk prepare, yela br 34 minggu 2 hari. xsangka lak dh kena deliver.

kat labor room, adui xleh nk citer. xde pn misi yg incharge aku semua doktor pelatih ngn doktor. jd bahan kajian, aku xkisah jd bahan kajian tp sometimes better staff nurse yg buat dr doktor pelatih nie. yela, masa kt bilik emergency, diorg cucuk tgn aku salah urat, kuar darah...pastue misi tue ckp biar dia yg buat...misi buat, sekali jer ok. sib baik misi tue ckp kt doktor pelatih tue xyah buat, biar dia yg buat. kalo xbape kali la salah. opsss...sori yer doktor pelatih. aku cuma citer pengalaman aku, xsemua korang cam tue. sebab case aku spesel, xde staff nurse pn kt bilik aku, semua doktor pelatih ngn doktor. diorg pening nk dptkn bacaan jantung baby no 2 sedangkn sblm nie misi buat ok jer. siap masukkn tiub kt bawah sebab nk bacaan baby no 2, salah gak. ker nk bg experience kt doktor pelatih tue...iskh iskh, pastue maila doktor senior ckp, okla baccan tue. sometimes jd doktor nie kena kot logik gak, xkn semua nk ikut procedure kn.

pas doktor senior tue advise, diorg pn ok....tinggalla aku ngn sorang doktor pelatih, dia masukkn ubat kuatkn contraction sebab bukaan still 3 cm, time tue hubby aku ada kt sebelah, adoi allah je tahu betapa sakityer nk bersalin...biler contraction tue makin kuat, xterkata2 rasa. bernafas mcm2 cara. tarik nafas panjang2, lepas. tp sakit tetap sakit. aku masuk labor room kul 10pm, dlm bertarung ngn contraction tue, ngn wayar check jantung baby tue, aku nk pusing xleh, kalo dpt pusing kurang skit sakit.....tiba2 aku rasa cam nk meneran....mcm nk berak. aku bgtaula doktor pelatih tue sakit sgt, nk terberak dh nie. dia kata belum lg, akak kira berapa lama contraction tue, kalo 40 kali satu minit, yela la nk bersalin. aku ckpla betul nk meneran nie, dia pn nk check jalan. tp biler nk check dia aku meneran sbb mmg rasa nk meneran, dia terkejut, alamak.......doktor, kepala bayi dh nmpk. br kelam kabut cr doktor.

doktor sampai dan beberapa org lg sampai....time tue sayup2 aku dgr doktor kata push...aku terus push...dan....lahirla atiya, anak kedua aku ke dunia. dan xlama pas tue, aku dgr doktor kata nk teran ke x, aku teran jer, dh berapa kali teran, lahirla anak ketiga aku...afrina. dan dua2 anak aku diletakkn kt dada aku..time tue alhamdulillah dan syukur pada Allah je yg mampu aku fikirkn. tp rupayer lega aku xhbs lg, doktor pelatih tue duk sibuk nekan perut aku, aku siap tanya doktor tue, xkuar lg uri, dia kata belum. aduhai, pastu mai lak doktor pelatih sorang lg...dh dekat setengah jam, aku ckpla pggla doktor. doktor mai, marah...u all nie next time kalo dh 1/2 jam uri xkuar, pgl i.....doktor terus seluk2 kt bawah, alamak sakityer....terasa nk meneran, doktor kata jgn meneran, nanti byk drah kuar. tiba2 doktor teriak suruh bg aku uubat tidur, lmbt lak doktor pelatih tue ambk, kena marah lg dek doktor...yela tgh urgent. pastue dok platih tue inject, terus aku xsedar. sedar2 jer ada misi taye, akak dh minum, belum....dia bg aku air susu. dn perutju terasa sakit sikit. dan aku disorong e wad. anak aku dua2 kat icu.....

wah, pjg tul karangan aku......sharing is loving....utk kenangan aku dn buat ank2 nanti. yela, nanti dh xigt detail...luv both my doter

Friday, August 26, 2011

Mengandung - 6 bulan

kandungan aku dh 6 bulan lebih. raya nie masuk 7 bulan...yeah leh minum air kelapa. dh lama raseryer nk minum air kelapa. maklumla, hari tue tunggu hingga setahun pas lahirkan alya bru nk minum, tp xsampai setahun dh peknen kali ke 2. terpaksala niat tue ditundakan. yela, takutlak kalo minum nanti jadi apa2 lak. sesetengah org mcm xkisah benda2 cam nie.

semester pertama peknen main makan jer, makan nenasla, minum air gasla, pakai high heella, iskh....aku takut. mungkin ada org sistem badan kuat, jd tahan. tp aku nie ikut 2 sekali rules, doktor pn aku ikut, nasihat org tua pn aku follow. even peknen yg xdirancang pn, tp anak tue kn rezeki dr Allah, jd kenala appreciate dan jaga ngn baik. kita cuma manusia biasa yg ditugaskan utk menjaga anak tue, bukan utk mensia2kn anak tue.

opsss, berbalik pd topik, sekarang kedua dua baby aku dh gerak dlm perut. sorang aktif, sorang kureng skit. pastue, nk tidur jer, pusing kiri pusing kanan, serba xkena. tp kalau giring ke kanan, mmg baby aku menolak2..xbg betul dia aku hempap skit. dia xselesa kot. so, kanan kejap jela, byk kirila. tp xlama pas tue kiri lak menolak2. alamatyer, mmg kurang nyenyakla tidur. tp lama2 biasala. time baby aku gerak aktif pagi2 bulan posa nie. mungkin tgh makan makanan sahir yg aku telan td. hehehe, pandai jer aku. yela, perut aku, aku jela yg tafsirkn.

time posa nie, kena sabar skit, sahur xpernah miss. kalau miss xleh bayang aku nk posa camaner. sahur pn kul 11,12 perut dh bunyi. byk tue aku mkn nasi time sahur, penuh pinggan, letih nk telan. tp xsahur kang xlarat lak. patutyer aku ambil multivitamin, tp bimbang muntah lak pagi nanti. leni, nk berjalan pn xlarat. kuar g shopping jer mesti nk rehat. xsamapi sejam pusing, dh cari tempat duduk. pastue tgh2 cr brg tue mesti menyendeng kt susunan baju2 tue. badan aku xleh tegak lama. mungkin xmampu nk tampung perut kot. berbeza betul dr peknen sorang.

hmmmm, aku peknen kembar satu uri, means anak aku kembar seiras dan sama jantina. scan gak, tp xnmpk pn lg. kecik lg dok kata. xkisahla anak pompuan ke laki. yg penting familyku dh bertambah. dptla alya kwn. alya sebagai ketua....heheheh

Thursday, August 25, 2011

Open a current account

what the purpose of opening a current account, one of it is if your have your own company, therefore a current account are needed in money cash flow. in opening the current account, just go to your preferred bank but 2 most ok bank is CIMB and Maybank. The differences are throught CIMB, no guarantor is need and only RM 1000 deposit, if thru maybank guarantor are need and RM 2000 deposit. One website, mypennysense.com topic, why i choose to open a current account with CIMb prime plan, you can read the `why CIMb are more friendly user compared to other bank. other way, you also can read thru the bank website itself.

Register your own company

How to register your own company;
1. register at SSM (suruhanajay syarikat malaysia), just search SSM thru your internet and there'll be list of SSM branch by state
2. you also can register by online at SSM,ssm.com.my they will email to you the company registeration cert once approved, if you register direct at the SSM you will get the original cert, by online just authorized copy
3. Go to SSM, once reached there, see the receptionist, tell them your application, they will give you Borang A (you also can print out the form thru SSM website).
4. fill the form, make sure you already got what company name is mind as currently your name can't be used as part of your company name
5. for rules and regulation in registeration your company, you can donwload the garis panduan pendaftran perniagaan at th website for reference and other back up doc needed
6. once the form was filled, see the recep again, they'll give you no giliran for the next process. just wait for the register officer to call your no
7. after register with the officer, you have to wait( they said it will take about 1 hour duration for them to issue your company cert)
8. Before reached 1 hour, you'll get your company registeration cert. Now, you can do your business legally

Monday, August 22, 2011

Hotel di Kuala Terengganu

I make some research about hotel in kuala terengganu just now as my mother and father in law will sent my brother in law at universiti sultan zainal abidin after this Hari Raya, 4 Sept 2011. He was offered to continue his degree there after successfully done well in his islamic study exam few months ago.

the most low prices among all the online travel agent is thru booking.com, but for sure the booking required your credit card no. don't worry its all under secure webpage. if you are still worried, then you can search the hotel webpage and then contact the registeration for booking without given your cc no. just tell you want to pay via cash once you check out....and actually there will be no problem if you pay via credit card also.

below list of common hotel at kuala terengganu:

1. hotel tanjung vista
2. grand continental hotel
3. primula beach hotel
4. sumai suite hotel
5. ming paragon hotel and spa - http://www.mingstar.com/ - 09-6228666
6. hotel yt midtown kuala terengganu
7. hotel ming star - http://www.mingstar.com/
8. gem beach resort
9. KT travellers inn
10. aryani resort terengganu
11. kembara resort
12. marang waterfront resort and spa - contact no; 09-6183999, no website
13. merang suria resort
14. marang village and spa - http://www.marangvillage.com/, tel: 09-6183894

i am looking for budget hotel, as my father and mother in law just need place to sleep one night and early in the morning there will rush for the registration process and not for jalan jalan trip. therefore, i have to find the hotel with economic price but comfort one. no need the one like the vacation one. two in my mind now, ming paragon hotel and spa & marang waterfront resort and spa. only this is suitable for 4 adults in 1 room. the budget are also under rm 200 if i directly book thru the hotel not thru the agent. if thru the agent the amount will be increase RM 10-20 depend on which agent. this is the comparison between ming paragon and marang waterfront:

a) ming star paragon – 1 double bed, 1 single

Room Facilities: Air Conditioning, Work Desk, Ironing Facilities, Shower, Hairdryer, Bathroom Amenities, Toilet, Bathroom, TV, Telephone, Satellite TV, Tea/Coffee Maker, Minibar, Electric Kettle
Room Size: 21 square metres
Bed Size (s): 1 Single , 1 Double .

Price:
Rm 174.50; rm 167.5 + rm 7 (add bfast)
Distance: 15 mins to university sultan zainal abidin

b)marang waterfront resort and spa
Price: rm 165; rm 150 + rm 15 (add 2 child breakfast)
Distance: 45 min to sultan zainal abidin university

Room Facilities: Air Conditioning, Iron, Work Desk, Ironing Facilities, Carpeted Floor, Sofa, Shower, Hairdryer, Bathroom Amenities, Toilet, Bathroom, Slippers, Satellite TV, Tea/Coffee Maker, Minibar, Electric Kettle
Room Size: 22 square metres
Bed Size (s): 2 Large double


normally, we also can read comments from others visitor. yela, i never have experience at those hotel, so others comments are really help.